Damage from Car Collision

Hello everyone. I got into an accident a few days ago, a car just ignored the stop and ran into my rear wheel. I fell pretty hard and I'm devastated since it was my first time riding the bike after purchasing it. I'm waiting for answers from insurance, sadly I'm dealing with the husband of the woman who ran me over and he's not too interested in resolving quickly. The most visible damage (apart form the broken spoke and rear derailleur) is on the seat stay. It looks "munched on". While I've tried pressing onto it, it doesn't seem to give, but I'm still cautious of trying to ride this bike anymore. There is a single carbon repair shop here, but they don't have any fancy equipment to assess the damage other than just lacing carbon fiber over the area. I's like to hear opinnions and suggestions. Thank you kindly