Best saddle for everyday use

Hey there
I’ve done quite a bit of research through here but I still don’t have my answer.
I’ve bought a 3t exploro ultra and even though I’m coming from a Merida reacto, I found the saddle (selle italia superflow) to be very grippy and super non comfortable.
My comuting to work is a pain in the ass really as I leave a significant amount of coton on my saddle from my jeans….
I know I have to try saddle before buying them but I’m left with a lot of choices online and too few irl at my bike shops (small town east of France).
Thank you for you advices