Documentary looking at three large families who between them have over 30 children, but they still intend on having more!

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This is my favorite bit when they’re newborn like this in the first few weeks there’s nothing like having a newborn baby there’s no other feeling like that for Me the average British family has two children but for some moms and dads that’s just not enough okay byebye everybody byebye bye bye good hello Mom it’s me number 12 just Arrived some people have an urge to have baby after baby I just really want to be in 9 month’s time holding a little baby I have a large family I am grateful to God and I want many more that’s what I pray for I love children where you

Going why are some parents compelled to keep having kids and what’s life really like in Britain’s largest families this be is the first day of your menstrual cycle and then what you do is you have a little rubber ring and you just move it around each day and

Then you go on to the white beads and these are the fertile time today it’s this one so this is after this point then we’re back around to you know this is a countdown to you are you going to have a baby are you not some I’m say

Just make love every day during this time as for positions they say that the one that’s still best for it even though they say it’s boring is the missionary position that’s supposed to be the best for conceiving so I suppose we just stick to that Deborah Simpson’s 43 and she’s been

Married to Derek for 23 years they’ve had 13 children and they’re getting themselves in Peak condition to have another I’ve also been taking Siberian ginang which is supposed to be very good for um meil things you feel the clock’s ticking because every year you are a little older

Hi are you all right yeah I was actually looking for him I don’t know if you sell it it’s wild yam cream wild yam cream yep y we don’t sell the Unicorn unfortunately I know I had to get that off the internet I suppose as you know as the

Years go on as well you know you’re more likely to miss carry so I’m just try to get my body in Peak condition I think it’s supposed to tone up your uterus if it’s Tire had 13 children so I’m sure m is very Tired boys boy let me see the boys the older Boys The Simpsons have seven boys and six girls the oldest is 21 and the youngest just 18 months they live in a four-bedroomed house just outside Glasgow he who’s Next what C do you know what this is I think I don’t know you don’t know that’s a cast of my tummy when I was carrying Celeste and you know what these are bet you don’t no it’s little sticks and that tells you whether you’re going

To have a baby or not and they’ve got two be lines and that says it was so that was Chloe and Kimberly’s on yeah do you think you wouldd like another baby yeah you would I don’t think I should stop having children if God wants to give me children I am thankful to

God you have to fight Muhammad is 50 and norin is 35 it’s Muhammad’s belief that Allah decides how many children their family should have norine’s heavily pregnant for the 11th Time I had the sex once with a condom and I hated it uh natural thing is natural it’s just like having your own natural set of teeth rather than having Dentures uh I’ve been present at all the deliveries and every time she’s in labor and when she’s having pains at the

Moment now finding difficult came again me and she says never again I’m going to come near near you see she finds me tempting and irresistible I said now come it’s just the one [Laughter] kiss Muhammad norin and their 10 children share four bedrooms in their house in Rochdale with the next baby due

It’ll soon be an even tighter squeeze this is IIM Ander these are the these two usually fight they’re fighting over the bikes Now moving on to Hab she’s a dancing queen all is Dancing mom sub he’s the dancer as Well she’s in a mood she’s quite Moody she’s good at school she’s clever this is her the computer genius so playing in the computer he’s very clever at school he’s good at maths this is my dad and I’ve got two little daring fighting over there D

Mooving I’m going to see a in his room he has room over his own he’s out to share with anyone he’s a big Manchester United fan and he stays there watching TV and playing on his laptop L is 2 years smaller than me and he’s football

Crazy though this is way playing for the national team England’s very cheeky this is my room and I share with Imam sadik Ibrahim Helma BL and Heer Hello Aunt from Manchester my mom sister as always she’s here to look after the kids while I go to the hospital with norin nice pink slippers for her I got her uh I thought I took fancy to them I said so they look nice so it’s easy for her

Comfortable aunti is here now we’re ready you still love me you chased me when I was a young man he kicking there it is it’s ready says is Daddy I’m coming it’s beautiful beautiful baby looking at noring and the way she’s feel feeling and the facial expression

Norin is coming with and the agony she’s expressing it must be really awfully painful don’t Worry God has chosen the female body to do deliver offsprings In His Image you’re okay you’re okay you’re okay darling you’re H that’s good baby’s on the way masah come on good girl deeper deeper that’s it yeah oh brilliant yeah yeah that’s sir good on you you want me to hold you

Around come on come come on that come on oh you gorgeous CHR yeah beautiful I’ll give you a b I’ll give you a bath I’ll give you a bath will you have any more no no that was the last one she she says that every time it’s Allah’s will children are God’s gift and when it’s up to him he he’ll give see

You you you have the music in [Applause] me norine’s back from hospital with her new baby daughter she was made to stay in an extra night to give her body time to recover from her 11th Child come on with a newborn in the house it’s Muhammad’s job to get the kids dressed

Ready for school come on school time darling let’s go let’s go let’s go come on you it’s great to have noing back because I was on my own and I had the nine the 10 children with me I was struggling really honestly I was struggling

My come on nearly 8:00 come on we got to go to school hey come on young man Hi Come come on now it should go like boing 777 with the a PL yeah yeah fantastic I love it hello Norine hello how are you okay come here you’re all right yeah come on in yeah come on oh have you been overnight you tired the bed’s okay how

Was the little one last night she’s all right she’s all right she’s feeling feeding better she was lost you look a bit better today than you did yesterday I was really worried about you yesterday yesterday I’m all day like don’t no nothing to do going do everything I’m not doing anything so

Pain yesterday too much painting for me there’s a car coming laor say she’s had some dizzy spells yesterday and today and it gets worse as you know with all the pregnancies doesn’t it so we need to to get you back that’s what they keep saying it’s all in the mind fa it’s all

In the uterus selling but haven’t you seen a difference this time in norine’s pregnancy because I have did you not notice how I I can still see noring that’s after I have first baby on that picture and that’s how she looks to you now she’s still the same to me and that’s

Thank God but as Norine said to you this time that enough’s enough or Norine how do you feel do you feel more and more tired understand this time you you you you have been this time throughout the pregnancy when she’s come to me anal she said the pain is too much I’m struggling

This time carrying this baby it’s because we’ve got lot on our place you have got a lot on it’s coping with the babies adding to it and the more pregnancies knowing has I think when we start uh feeling that it’s getting a strain on us financially we can’t do

This so we can’t cope with the kids I think that will be my uh turning point and saying now but I’ll still turn around to God and say if you want me to do the job you give me the strength well you know I only had two children cuz

That’s what I felt that I could cope with that’s what I felt that I could give as much as I could to those that’s brilliant I respect that when you had only two children what made you stop that too then because I didn’t feel I could afford anymore I didn’t feel I

Could give as any more love to any more children I wanted those two to have as much as I could give them so you’re not standing for some food you a nice spicy one Curry thank you and I love it too she had the strain because it it

Phys it does take out of you anything strenuous that’s stretching the body and the muscles playing football even after a long if I go and play football now without having regular exercise and and being in that routine I bet you my body will be screwing me up and really

Killing me I said me I I shouldn’t have done that using it time and time again is not going to wear it out and I think like any other muscles if you’re working it practicing it it builds it stronger and Stronger just always been baby mad you know just baby mad PR Mad well there’s nothing like having a newborn baby that is just there’s no other feeling like like that for me there isn’t anyway just that newborn baby I can’t wait for that haven’t had that for 3 years and I just can’t wait for that what’s his name

Hey Karen and Ellis are expecting their 12th child so far they’ve had seven girls and four boys how can you not love that stuff that just makes me go all we get and ease that stuff his little suit his little PRM suit as soon as I found out

I’m pregnant I’ve got to go in and buy something you know just obvious see something that that doesn’t cost much you know just to start off with a it’s nice this time doing boys stuff you know cuz i’ I’ve had so many girls and that and people can’t believe that

You still feel like that over your 12th as you do your face just love it it’s just brilliant Karen’s 39 and she had her first child at 19 even though she’s had 12 children she still wants everything to be perfect for the new arrival I’m good at being a mom so I’m

Probably the best mom I now you just need to just be a relaxed M but if you’re stressed by I’ve got to have X amount of money in the bank you know my kids have to go to this place and that place all that kind of stuff it

Just stresses you out so you’re going to end up with stressed out kids sorry never felt that my God I can’t have another one you know because couldn’t cope you know I’ve never felt that way so that’s because they’re all really good so it must be something I’m doing right you Know the Johnston family live in orser they’ve got two Council houses that they’re currently converting into one But some luck it should be the last one and then we can all grow up and live happily ever after that’s the dream people say they say you must be mad but it’s not mad I think it’s just love you know got don’t know don’t know what it is I don’t know

What we’re trying to substitute don’t know what it Is so this is the registration of birth and death B’s office good morning young lady reg yeah this is for you lovely people to what the new babies’s head with just like to take a seat around the corner the thank you cheers thank you thank you good morning Mr Seline good

Morning are you here to register your baby just come through please yes thank you very much thank you got the list here all oh good all organized it’s four names after a long struggle with the kids the children deciding and the wife and relations uh we come up with Roa

Ikra n BBY okay are we okay with the names you haven’t I’ve got the spellings um have you got another book here that you use yeah Rook Q yeah a y a uh place of birth my place of birth Pakistan then the occupation teacher lecturer Muhammad’s been unemployed for three and half

Years he’s always on the hunt for work but says it’s difficult to find a job that will do justice to his qualifications been looking for different kind of jobs teaching jobs administrative jobs uh local Council jobs all sorts whatever has come up that I felt I can cope with that I’ve got the

Skills so why do you think that in 3 years you haven’t been able to find that job it’s not my ability my skills or my education cuz I’ve got all that I’ve got seven British degrees PhD the highest degree I think it’s still my color and

My religion I’m a Muslim and I think after the 77 incident and the 911 uh there’s been a lot of hidden agenda against the Muslims and I think it’s the hype of anti-muslim because I’m a Muslim I think that’s why I’m not getting a job hi morning Muhammad is well known in

Rochdale and he regularly writes to the local paper to air his views on Muslim issues a national newspaper has recently featured Muhammad under the headline unemployed scer making him even more of a Target than usual on the town streets come on young man how are you

Let’s have a chat all right Mr are you all right nice to see you young man Mr Sal what have you done to go you you have 11 children you more now all I wish to state is if uh a local person you are local I must say

This I am not Prejudice I’ve got a lot of friends who are Muslims you’re just Prejudice now because you had to retract prej you had to retract what you were going to say there is racism there against your opinions against your beliefs against me no you’ve got

Prejudism no no no you’re racist against me because of my color you’re a clever man I’m I am a clever man I’ve got seven British degrees and you’ve got 11 British children absolutely I’m very proud of them of course you are but all I if every family in this country are R

Rosale and 11 children who’d pay for them the parents would if they working you don’t I’m not working because it not made my own way I didn’t become unemployed in my owning Mr you’re a hypocrite no I’m not hypoc you’re a hypocrite why I’m a hypoc why

Don’t you go out and get a job and support your children why don’t you give a job you’re a hypocrite I am the victim you’re I am the victim what with the loving children because of the color with the loving children yes don’t are so ridiculous have you looked around

Yeah yeah there all people so many they’re lovely people Rock steale people are Muslims and they’re nice people but the work the work what do you do I work what do you do to fetch up you work you work making children yeah and that’s the hardest job that’s what you work and

That’s the hardest job after 13 children Deborah’s trying harder than ever to have another as well as getting her body in Peak condition she started a course of reflexology Deborah hopes that this will balance her hormones and boost her fertility I think throughout my whole life I’ve just absolutely hated the

Thought of failing at anything and I always sort of strive to succeed even if it’s only in small things I suppose for me is like a quest because it’s something I really really want to Happen I suppose it’s the hardest I’ve ever tried I just really want this to go through I really want to be in 9 months time holding a little baby tonight mom and dad are taking the whole family out with 15 mouths to feed it’s an expensive and rare Treat forget the names at time believe it or not you come in your um you know they just there’s so many and they come and talk to you and giving you different things in the schools and projects and they want know different things and it’s it does it it BLS your

Mind at times you know ages against her now just getting older hi pal you done To Deborah is now desperate to find out whether she is pregnant with her 14th she’s decided to take an early pregnancy test although she knows that means the answer won’t be definitive I did a a pregnancy test a few minutes ago I was going to fling it in the bin but I know it’s a slight staining of pink so I don’t know whether it’s just because it’s a cheap test and it’s given a false positive or or what really this means you’re probably

Pregnant I got I’ve got something to show you and see what you think okay um did this before anyone came in today I don’t know what do these taste do you see anything or do you not see anything you want me to get you a taste I don’t

Know I don’t know what to do put water do you want me to go out I have have you to go I’ll go get a tast okay I’ll see you in a while then you know deie and I got married and we we did think we’ll have a few kids

You know maybe two three but um they were so good that we had another one and another one and another one and they they’re all lovely it it’s all you know having a large family doesn’t feel like it’s a large family to us it just feels like that’s

Her family it’s just natural babies have an an instant love appeal you know but that’s nature you know nature builds that in so that you want to have another baby if if it if babies didn’t have that there’d be no human race would There This morning Deborah took an early pregnancy test it looked positive but it’s too early in her cycle to definitely know still Deborah’s so Keen for good news that she’s taking another Test no see this way bit here just in in there how many lines can you see just in there two two really right where are they show me one there one there so you can see that mhm and I’m not going crazy then the only thing is you can’t tell

Anybody at all right because you’ve got to do another one of these until you’re sure so you can’t tell anyone till we know okay so it’s your secret I don’t even know what to do anymore just feel nervous sort of excited at the thought that it

Might be and nervous that well if it’s not Deborah will have to wait a few more days to get a definitive answer thanks for the boot dad Natalie is 16 Deborah’s third child and the oldest still at home she knows the impact that a new baby will have on the

Family a few of us have our sort of concerns about it because we realize that the more the family grows The more stress is going to be put on us and also there’s obviously going to be more and more of a gap of attention like all of us are willing to

Accept that and it’s obviously my mom and dad’s Liv and they have the choice and nobody should be able to take that from them oh do you think you’ll have a big family no I’m not going to have a big family I don’t think I’ll have even one

Kid honestly after seeing what my mom has to go through every day No disgusting Deborah is unsure about the blue lines on her latest test so she’s asked Derek to go and get another hoping this time the answer will be final so you think you should do it then yes don’t get too excited though you know it’s probably going to T

Than see you in a minute it’s just disappointing that’s all happen another time it just doesn’t meant to be this month that’s all sorry that’s okay I just need to try next month again when you’ve just started it’s it’s just about impossible it’s like winning the lottery is not

It’s very unlikely it can happen but it’s unlikely to happen straight Away tomato Just while I go around there please big big thing of the day is the milk baby milk I usually get the big ones which is a gallon so this you can see has a gallon and five of these gallons go through within two days so I’m back here

Here after 2 days to get another five CH I have to come shopping at least three to four times a a week so it just adds up but minimum of3 to 400 a week is gone nowhere I think that’s just a starter for us so my children all of them they were nappies

Till quite late age I’ve got 75 nappies here we go through in a week with all the kids who are using the nappies who are wearing nappies ibraim come on ibraim I think this is the only place takes my check byee everybody byebye bye bye bye everybody bye bye bye I love you my grandom she asked me you in the married Muhammad ask my mom and dad what he think close today we’re all getting ready to go to uh black pool he’ll tell they’re all excited they’re all eager go come on everybody in now please

Put the stuff to the side yes darling come on M where you going I can’t hear you everybody please good behavior CH we’re going to Black pool ho okay Takes it out of you really it does uh now take out take him out on this trip he’s worn us out already before we even set up off we go I think I’m going to run out of just run out of petrol I had it on the list Karen and Ellis are going on holiday for the first time in 7 years they are driving to Scotland to see relatives it’s Karen’s last chance to take her 11 children away before she gives birth to their 12th in a minute get in a minute I I just want to show

Them something different you know a bit of excitement I’m going to take the kids sledging minut how long um are you predicting it’s going to take you to get there 5 and 1 half hours maybe six with the kids maybe seven maybe eight maybe eight yeah 6 and a half hopefully maybe

Eight hopefully fingers crossed if we get good snow up up on the hill um that’s something that you’re always going to remember it’s really important to get it right I am staring I am staring yeah I Amry couple loaves of bread couple dozen packs of crisps uh

Biscuits carons of juice Sai rolls takes about half an hour to make 2 minutes to Eat well I’m 34 weeks pregnant now so um the baby actually could come at anytime so I’m taking a baby back with us too cuz I’ve had three really early come on sit in your seats now put your belts on sit you got your coat as got your [Applause] Inhaler there yet shut up I want to wa we be there in a minute stop it right settle down you’re nearly there don’t start in the last 5 Minutes stay in this house it’s our holiday house yeah might your feet that’s it wow that if I ever want a break or car once a break we just pinch 5 minutes here and there uh it’s not very often this is only a couple times a year we can actually make time for

Ourselves what annoys me and makes me angry sometimes is other people telling us why should we have a big family but um it’s to be honest it’s nobody’s business you know what I mean we look after our kids we go to work and all that we do everything we need to do uh

Basically by ourselves we don’t rely on anybody else yeah I went to see about the snip uh when I was about 25 but uh the doctor wasn’t very keen on doing it he thought I was too young and I said well it’s it’s to stop you having kids so what’s

What’s the problem but he just thought well anything could happen in the future you know and you might want to have more children so just uh have a think about it and then never went back you haven’t thought about it again uh yeah no yeah but uh I don’t know it’s

Just uh Karen doesn’t want to see Karen doesn’t want to know are we standing on Big Bun is this my n and granddad’s grave they were old people we’re in RNE graveyard this is where my grandparents are buried um it’s it’s a village where my dad was bought born and brought

Up Karen unexpectedly lost her dad to can when she was only 12 you can’t imagine what it’s like being 12 and someone dies it’s just just I didn’t didn’t know about it or anything you know I didn’t it wasn’t expecting it I say came in from school

And that was it you know he was Dead 2 hours later I know that there is a difference between good and bad in childhood you know it was good up until that point and then then it changed it didn’t go bad or anything it’s just that it wasn’t the same again you know Stay on k k gone this side anybody else you get the next one Ken yeah we can’t do this all the time so when we do do something like this it’s got to be right you know to go bed look Hi did you like that what do you want to go again you know as long as they’ve had a good time then it’s a success been worth it I think yeah the kids just they’re having a ball they’re loving it yeah yeah think they’ve all cried they

Still up there but they’re still coming back for more so you know it’s it’s not that bad that used to be pregnant it doesn’t put me up or down really you know unless you’ve got any medical problems it’s really not I’m not sick you know I’m

Just pregnant um and I’m quite close SP to hospitals so I’m not like completely out in the sticks you know yeah just that Gonda Journey down that’s the only distance I’ve got to go Hello I he mam we’re play here okay come on I don’t think you can find any words in any language whether it’s English Udu Punjabi uh French German I don’t think you can find the words to really express your inner feeling of what it’s like to

Be a father so the first time I saw my father was I think 8 or N9 years old he wasn’t even present at my birth he wasn’t there to pick me up take me out he was earning a living here in the UK mother tried desperately to have

Another child she wanted one she she loved children and my dad wanted one she had six miscarriages and gave her ill health depression and everything Muhammad was an only child until he was 25 years old when his mother finally gave birth to a baby sister she was months premature it was

So exciting just thinking about and talking about it brings a lot of pleasure and happiness to me cuz it’s God God’s blessing it was a miracle honestly it was a miracle uh a child 1 10 oz is first time I picked her up on the palm of my hand she just fitted

There whatever you come from darling we have me and us can have one how much one each one what one’s not going to get you very far is it no we’re going to go to the shop down there what for to win prize win PRI are you

Gambling yeah I’m you can’t gamble it’s against our religion you know that please no I’m not pleasing you it is forbidden un hey give us a smile gorgeous you you’ve got another wonderful beautiful baby on the way I’m glad you’ve said that thank you very much you’re putting your ideas into my

Head thank thank you CL there isn’t another baby on the way God bless you thank you very much I hope so yes who do you love then nobody nobody not even the children yeah children what not you not me so I think she doesn’t find me irresistible anymore I’ll have to go

Take early retirement who loves me the most me who do you love mommy mmy have you had a good Day well say by say bye to your Momom Karen’s wait for her 12th baby is almost over the hospital have recommended an induction 2 weeks early come on go can you make sure you get this off right cuz you can’t go to bed with uni on to your Chammies it’s just it’s still just as exciting having your 12th as it is having your first I mean I can’t wait to get my hands on I can’t Wait kids you come to do plants yeah you’re going to get I’ve got all these plant pots and it’s all got your names on okay after last month’s failed attempt to conceive Deborah remains determined to have her 14th baby don’t eat the M right make you sick

Since the last pregnancy test was a disappointment after obviously your menual psych you feel sort of disappointed for a few days but you sort of get over it and think well you’ve got other times to try and we just keep trying basically right what are you

Going to call it then um rose rose okay hopefully our future will include another few kids that’s that’s what I see I don’t know if that will come true or not but I hope one day to have another one and and there’s nothing you see that there’s

Nothing selfish about that um I would see it as being selfish if we had the kids and we just let them run R and we weren’t looking after them properly but to be honest we put our heart and soul into the kids 100% even probably 110 10%

I mean we just do absolutely everything to make sure that their Life’s good and everything’s going well so I don’t think it’s selfish and people that would say that should maybe put their own lives under a microscope and think well I’ve got two kids and I’m out working and I

Get to say good night to them at the end of the night and say well you could consider that selfish I don’t I think it’s choices you want me to put that up for you I suppose it’s someone if they’re born with a passion for music or a for

Writing anything it’s usually there until they’re not on this Earth anymore and that’s the way I feel it’s it’s with me it’s it’s heart soul everything it’s my part of my being I’m thinking the next baby’s going to be a girl cuz I want a to because you want the family to girls

And boys T cuz right now the girls have got set and right now the boys has got seven hello M it’s me how are you I’m fine number 12 just arrived he’s happy he’s sleeping he’s doing well he’s tired nled give her a little sleep for a

Couple hours and then she’ll be up playing M’s e and Out b she’ll be happy with Larry get them out later home later hopefully that’ll be it soon Come on Get to sing a song to him go on Then [Applause] I like to go in have the baby go for a quick sleep and back home no fuss no mess doesn’t like it when it’s not the fact that he’s number 12 it’s just the fact that he’s another baby you know that’s it it’s not really about oh getting the family bigger and

That it’s just s of babies got B This is my favorite bit when the newborn like this in the first few weeks every bit has stages that I like you know when they start smiling and that taking notice and going away and stuff I mean it’s all good but like my most special bit is is just like this

Newborn stage it’s just all of it and um can’t imagine not having that really but I can’t imagine thinking that I would want to be pregnant again but come on imine not having one of them either so I’m a bit stuck AR I something’s got to give

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  1. I tell you what, considering how many times he’s seen his children arrive he was STILL supportive and so happy. I had one and the daddy got bored 5 minutes after the test was done. 😂

  2. Good parents but clean the house up.its not fair on the kids.that mattress I wouldn’t let my dog sleep on let alone my child

  3. Why why why ? I've got 8 beautiful children but are well looked after . The fact the kid was scared of the hoover tells you how much they use it shame and kids sleeping in uniform 🤔 no and keep you filthy tounge away from a newborns skin good god you give me the fear 😮 give noreen a break instead of trying to tell her how to feel !!!

  4. If you need dentures than you do have to get them it's a part of you're health. It's in they're culture some people have no understanding of that. It's in the blood not just the uterous. He said the magic word routine!

  5. "I won't work because I just have children"? How dare he just take advantage of the easy money? His poor wife looks worn out. He doesn't care about his wife's wellbeing, so long as the kid's just keep the money rolling in. That's disgusting.

  6. I would just go on birth control without telling him She is not a breeding hen. IT does not seems that any of them can provide provide for them. What about education and studyìng. Men cannot force woman to just pop òut kids. It is not healthy for the woman. what if something happens tò the mom. Is he going to raise them on their own. I doubt it.

  7. Living of the state is embarrasing. They have 2 council houses houses that could go to other another family. Go back to your own country. And he has no work for 3 years. If he blames ĥis religeion, bull man, he just not WANT TO WORK. He is just laxy

  8. All these familes having loads of kids 2 x familes support and work and one doesnt but you cant say anything cause he will call you racist
    Unfortunately i lived in the same town as him he is a disgusting man he is nice around the cameras but he has a foul mouth if you dont agree with him….he one horrible scrounger and remember another documentary being done on him either he got a job or the benifits stop his job lasted 6 weeks
    The one woman peaved me off abit when she did the pregnancy test and it was negative you should be grateful you have children.some woman cant have children how do you think that makes them feel 😢
    and the other woman loves them as babies soooo much give her a doll….

  9. Unfortunately, the Radfords prove that in most cases having so many children creates a burden on the state. All of the adult Radford children are living in social housing despite their parent's wealth. So whilst they may not have claimed benefits, their children are.

  10. He was practically saying to the midwife in the nicest possible way. Sod off. I want more kids doesn't matter about his poor wife who looked completely mentally shattered. OK, he love, his kids very much. But he should think about his wife. She is the one that has to do all the work. He obviously thinks it's just a walk in the park she practically saying she doesn't want anymore As she couldn't get a word in edgeways when the midwife was there. Their religion states, the man makes the decision Kind of like bullying her into it.😳

  11. I was wondering why with the Muslim family some of the children were woken up for school but they already had their school uniform on. Yes children are a blessing but to what extent will he keep putting his wife through this. I don't think he took it seriously at all what the nurse was saying. It should not be about quantity but quality.

  12. No man should make the decision whether a woman has more children or not. They should especially not be comparing 9 months of pregnancy then hours of birth (over 10 times) to playing football without exercising!

  13. Even though I believe children are a blessing… people should provide for their children themselves… not a system..especially if they want so many children, also the burden is too great on one person in a time when wages don’t reflect one’s qualifications or skills….i do know that under Islam a woman cannot deny her husband….environmental health need to step in due to the hygiene issues in that house…. But I must admit there’s not many husbands who are very hands on or supportive in helping raise the children…. Too many women are left to raise children alone in the UK today…. Sad really…

  14. It’s OK to say that you want a lot of children, however, can you actually afford all these kids needs and future needs. Also, as a retired shrink, you cannot give attention and love that is equal to all your children. Human nature will fight it because they will see it as being unnatural to have that many kids.I just want to wish you. Good luck on your journey with all your kids.

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